I have a natural tendency to question everything around me, including myself. This is one of those traits that is both blessing and curse. My questions usually sound like, “what if we (I) did this a little different, what if there is a better way, what if we (I) have allowed what we (I) see and experience around us (me) to blind us (me) to real truth?” Most of my life I have been driven by a deep curiosity for all things around me and a desire to do things differently…a desire to live my life serving God’s mission how He wants me to, not how I necessarily want to. I will never claim to have gotten it perfect and I do believe this pursuit has been perceived by some as unstable or unconventional…but, I am more interested in pleasing my Father rather than others’ perceptions.
Lately, I have been challenged in my quiet time to pursue holiness. And if I am completely honest with myself, that word puts a little fear in my heart. Fear of what I must give up or what I must start doing in order to confront this challenge head-on in my faith walk. The sense I have in this challenge is the measure of righteousness pursued is a direct reflection on how God will use me in His mission/ministry and if there is one thing I want in life…it is for God to use me to glorify Himself. Before I go too far, I fully understand the fact I am already made righteous through my Savior, Jesus Christ. But this pursuit of holiness is causing me to ask questions, evaluate, and challenge myself in many ways I would not previously have done.
Let me give you a tangible example. I have a friend who has brought up multiple times how he believes Paul was a “man’s man” and probably used language that was peppered with various “adjectives” and other bad language. The only thing I can think of is this – it is an attempt to justify his own use of crass language and seeking affirmation. Here is the part that I am challenged with, a few years back, I would have said the same thing justifying my occasional use of crass language. These conversations caused me to dig in and truly look at Paul’s life from a biblical perspective. I am no theologian, but I do have a Bible and a pretty solid understanding of how to study it. When I need answers…that is where I go.
As I dug into this topic, I could not get away from Ephesians 4:29 (Amp), “Do not let unwholesome [foul, profane, worthless, vulgar] words ever come out of your mouth, but only such speech as is good for building up others, according to the need and the occasion, so that it will be a blessing to those who hear [you speak].” As I read this over and over again, I consider Paul’s life; his desire to reach the lost with the Gospel message, his understanding of freedom in Christ, yet his willingness to give it up so he didn’t make a brother stumble. I have to come to the conclusion that Paul was a real person, made real mistakes, but charged all of us (and himself, because most preachers are speaking to themselves at the same time) with ensuring our words build up others and are a blessing to everyone who hears us. That seems pretty straight forward to me.
I can’t stop there though because Ephesians 4:29 is but one verse, surrounded by other verses that must be taken into account. We must study in context of surrounding scripture. The general topic is how we should walk in this life of following Christ. I should completely discard my past self. I should reject all falsehood; lying, defrauding, telling half-truths (ouch, no more fishing stories), and spreading rumors (Eph 4:25 Amp). I can be angry, but I cannot allow it to cause me to sin, let the sun go down while remaining angry, allow my anger to cause resentment, or lead to bitterness (Eph 4:26,27 Amp). As I read, it all comes back full circle to the challenge of holiness in my life. Holiness does not come overnight and I am not convinced it can completely come this side of eternity, BUT that does not give me an excuse to not pursue it.
Hebrews 12:14 says we must, “Pursue peace with all people, and holiness, without which no one will see the Lord” (NKJV). Other versions use the word strive, work towards, work at, all telling me that it is not easy to find peace with all people and the holiness that God calls us to. This is something that must be practiced daily and in every area of my life (church, home, business, friends, etc.). I must work hard at ensuring my actions, my words, my life demonstrates holiness. Does that mean I don’t screw up? Nope! God looks at the intent of our heart and he has grace for us when we come humbly before him and admit our shortfalls, His grace is sufficient (2 Cor 12:9).
Let me end on this thought. All my questions, this call to evaluate everything in my life and to pursue holiness, are not me looking at others and condemning their actions. It is simply me trying my best to walk the path the Lord has called me to. Paul says in Romans 12:2, “Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” This charge by Paul gives me extreme hope and assurance I am on the right path. If we consistently challenge ourselves, ask ourselves if we are simply copying the behaviors and customs of the world or allowing God to change our perspective, then we will understand God’s will for us. However, the latter must be true then, if all we do is copy the world in our actions, words, and life, then we will NOT understand God’s will for our lives and live in deception. Holiness is unattainable separated from the Blood of Christ, but that does not mean we can sit back and relax once we have a relationship with Jesus. My faith is worked out daily as I encounter different situations, learn and study the Bible more, and simply spend time with my Father in prayer.
My challenge to myself and you…Do not fit in. Be different. Study the life of Jesus (even His own family took offense at him, Mark 6:3). Pursue holiness in all you do and you will understand God’s good, pleasing, and perfect will for you. When I stand before my Father in heaven, I don’t believe it is the things I did do that will concern me…rather the things He called me to do that I didn’t take action on.
With love, grace, and peace,